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MARRIED MONEY AND SINGLE MONEY

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 Money is arguably the number one requirement for a successful transition into adulthood( health aside).

In the chase for money a single person is way different from a married person, as there is a transition into how money is ought to be spent.


The phase of accountability, prudence, intentionality and conviction are the deciding factors that rule how money is spent. 

The key word in this article is marriage!. 

As simple as it sounds, marriage is the quickest way to lose money in the long run as there is little or no room for failure.

Any slip is detrimental to sustainable wealth. 

The process of putting your interest below to accommodate other expenses is known as married money.

While single money is the act of putting yourself first in every monetary consideration.


A single person's 5000 is equivalent to a married person's 20000. A lot of people who are faith inclined refuse to acknowledge the huge difference between the two. Faith is a moral recital and it helps a person into taking unrealistic risk which sometimes yield results and most times fail. But reality is not a religion and the chances of such risk yielding fruit is close to zero!


A single person can lose money and yet have time to recoup his/her loses. A single person is allowed to fail. A single person is allowed to be reckless and direction less with money and still enjoy the grace of single money but the expectation and experience is different on the other side of the coin.

Married money is not lenient 

Married money is frugal

Married money is impatient 

Married money is scared to be lost

Married money is under pressure 

Married money cannot give excuses for failure.


Money is a necessity in life.. but the moment it becomes married, it creates a new path that will end in tears or pleasure.

Before any cent is used , always remember the two types of money and act accordingly.


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